Travel unrelated, but this is something that’s been on my mind often lately. I don’t know when I got sucked into this thinking but I suspect it has to do with the indecision that plagues me everyday with the most minor of decisions. I have a tendency to be pretty sure when I make important life decisions like my career, long-term hobby, or the people to befriend, but somehow get extremely fickle when it comes to picking my outfit or purchasing everyday items like wallets or phone cases even. I do tons of research into something before I purchase it, and it’s ridiculous how the amount of time I put in is never in proportion to how important the item is. In fact it’s quite the opposite. I could decide in a snap to buy a $400 lens, but spend 50 hours of research for a wallet less than $100. It’s bewildering really, and recently I had to do some real thinking about why this was the case.
It’s probably because we live in abundant choices, where there’s always an alternative that could be better than what you’re looking at. The more choices there are (i.e. a wallet has 100x more choices than a camera lens), the harder it is to make a decision. I’m starting to overcome this a little through an article a dear friend shared, called The Power of Good Enough. It was a perfect little article that sums up all of my indecision and hands me the solution. I felt incredibly satisfied reading the article because the answer is as simple as it looks. If it’s good enough, that’s all you need.
But I want to achieve much more than a change in my purchasing behavior. I’m still riddled by daily indecision even when I’m not purchasing anything, and the biggest contributor to that is clothes. Fashion. Material stuff that’s likely to be the most abundant in your life.
I spend a good 10 minutes everyday thinking about what I want to wear. 80% of the time I end up settling for the same few clothes I rotate through and I sometimes leave the house bitterly thinking I failed (again) to wear the rest of my wardrobe. I force myself to try to utilize all that I have, thinking that would justify why I purchased them, but always default back to the same few items. I used to think I was super uncreative, unfashionable and boring because I refuse to wear other clothes, but now I’m beginning to realize I don’t actually need these other clothes. I don’t need new clothes all the time to feel confident, comfortable or fashionable. That’s a false sense of security that consumerism has successfully sold to me.
Hence I started to plant this little seed in my head called minimalism. When I read up on it, watch documentaries on it, I get excited. That was exactly the kind of lifestyle I wanted. Having just enough to make you happy, and never too much to add unnecessary stress or anxiety in your life. It brings me right back to my Korea days where I lived off very few items (I literally owned ONE mug for all my drinks, I just wash it immediately after using) and was super happy. I never felt like I lacked anything. I didn’t miss all the sentimental or just-in-case items I keep at home. I loved that my room wasn’t cluttered with too much stuff. I loved that I wore every single item in my wardrobe and I liked every piece.
So I’m gonna start, baby steps first. Obviously the first thing I’ve got to to is throw shit away. Try to sell some of them if i can, donate whatever’s still in good condition and throw the rest of the junk out. I’ve purged maybe half of my room in the past year and added new storage furniture to keep things organized, but it’s still not good enough. I look at my room right now and feel confident I can purge half more, if not 3/4 of it. Once I’ve purged all of those stuff, I’ll start on a quest to purchase a few value items in their place. For example, buying better quality, versatile pieces of clothes that can last me a few years.
I am super positive this will help me along in my daily life much better. It also sets precedence for when I move into my new house eventually. Less items to consider moving, and a better attitude to prevent clutter from ever happening in that new house.
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